Sharing passwords with your significant others can be beneficial to the trust and intimacy of a relationship. But is it truly beneficial to the success of the relationship?
We all know that relationships take a great deal of work and often the most valuable thing in a relationship is trust.
You are trusting in who they are and if their integrity matches your own. Will he/she do the right thing when you are not watching? And let’s face it always getting to this point in a relationship can be challenging based on your own personal experiences. But for the most part getting to know someone you thoroughly enjoy being with is a remarkable feeling. And through that experience you learn the boundaries you set for one another.
But is it ever a good time to share your personal passwords with your partner? When referencing passcodes, I’m in the mindset of your mobile device passcode, social media passwords, email, house alarms, or any other digital footprint that requires security.
The thought alone sounds intrusive but does sharing passwords undoubtingly give a person the security they need to trust a person wholeheartedly?
Does this give your partner the ultimate trust and security that person need in that relationship.
As technology increase has sharing password become inevitable amongst partners
Surely, in this day and age of technology you can literally find out anything you wish to know about a person. Where a person live, their marital status, their occupation, shit their criminal background. The obvious thought is why lie?!
With the aforementioned, is there even a reason to even ponder the idea of sharing passwords. When you can access so much online without consent. We all remember that old saying “what’s done in the dark ultimately comes to light”. I can assure you there is more hassle in having the pressure of feeling the need to check someone secured belongings.
And who want to waste their energy on that?
But for the sake of this post, and the likelihood of you meeting a lame F&*k-boys or ratchet women who’s looking to manipulate a relationship lets review this idea. https://www.mytruthlieshere.com/conflict-in-relationships-how-do-you-deal-with-relationship-insecurities/
Listen, we’re not Cleo the mind reader and we wont know when every person is lying about their intent. But for your own welfare, being upfront about what you want and what you are looking for is always key. Assess their character first!
But if you have decided to be in committed relationship is it appropriate to share your private passcode for transparency in a relationship.
So let’s look at the pro’s and cons of this.
Pros To Sharing Passwords in Relationships
Sharing passwords in relationships can lead to a faster development of the relationship. It can also afford opportunities to setting the boundaries needed to ensure a successful relationship. Lastly, share passwords in a relationship gives a level of transparency that can be beneficial within relationships.
Cons To Sharing Passwords in Relationships
Sharing your password in a relationship can also be dangerous. I’m not talking about Netflix passcodes here. Having someone share your password can have damaging affects if the relationship doesn’t work out. Exposing your public accounts to embarrassing post or worst can have a lasting effect. Increasing the chances of stalkers or controlling personality types.
Experts discourage the sharing of passwords indefinitely or until you are in a lifelong committed relationship.https://psychologycorner.com/why-you-shouldnt-share-passwords-with-your-partner/
There can certainly be a need to know your spouse password when you are rearing children or running a household. However, one should be wary to just sharing that sort of information while you are uniquely getting to know a person.
I am of the opinion that sharing passwords can only lead to more turmoil in a relationship. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship that a person security was weighed by the access they had over my personal privacy.
Having access to a person’s privacy can only lead to an unhealthy sense of control over one another. The need to search for things let alone care about things you didn’t have or need access to.
So what the word, are you interested in sharing your password with your partner? Why and/or why not?
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